He who answers before listening-
that is his folly and his shame.
Proverbs 18:13

I've realized that I would have benefited a lot more from taking a Listening 101 class rather than a speech class here in college.

It's ironic, but I truly believe that listening well says the most.

It's like in middle school where whenever a kid has their hand up their ears close and the no longer are listening to the teacher. So often I mentally have my hand up, so to say, when someone else is talking to me. What good is it if I ignore what they say in anticipation of sharing my own opinion? And even if I hear, does that mean I'm listening?

My dear brothers, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak...
James 1:19a